Thursday, December 16, 2004

A Reason, A Season And A Lifetime

Hammock

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed on the surface or to yourself. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to grant you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any offence on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.

Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and coerce you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our needs have been met, our desires fulfilled; their work is done.

The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.

When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They may bring you an experience of stillness or make you snigger. They may edify you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! Even so, it is only for a season.


LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a sound emotional foundation. Your piece of work is to put up with the message, love the person or the people in any way; and set what you have learned to custom in all other relationships and matters of your life.

It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.

No comments: